Tks much, PTP. Moving over to amazon.com next

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So far, and tks to this forum, I'm catching on that his tantrums have to do with perfectionism. But it is the more subtle actions that I have missed. DS doesn't do many things (ride a bike, play football) because he says he doesn't like it. He has severe visual issues that we continue to address, but some willingness to try wld be helpful. Basically, he's not confident, he fast forwards that he will fail, so he digs his heels in. I really need to find a way to talk him round or he'llbe trapped in that same negative cycle.