Just trying to breathe, and wait and see. Another point in our favor is that she is at the very youngest end of the range for that room, so there may be a few kids who can give her a run for her money! I'm hoping for at least one kid as verbal as she is.
It's always possible. Breathing is good. Being at the youngest of the age range is good. And every kid has a different personality. A child with a higher EQ may be able to 'take the good and leave the rest' at a younger age than a child who is more normal in that way.
I think second borns have an advantage if they have an older sibling who is 'like them' to help them feel more secure inside in being who they are.
Keep breathing,
Grinity