Thank you for sharing that outcome with us, as we should all be able to draw from your experience.
When I was pregnant with DD9 my husbands sister passed away, with 4 children left behind, youngest being 2.5 yo. What they did was have someone in another room watching them, they came out one by one and viewed her in the coffin with someone explaining things gently to them of what was going on, and they went back to the room. They were allowed to come out again if they needed to be with their Dad and it all seemed to work out pretty well.
