Shari,

Would you be interested in the frustrations of a gifted ex-child? I was definitely not well-served by the system(s) I was in, even when accommodations were made. I can look back now and see things that were tried that still weren't enough and draw conclusions about how it's shaped my life.

At this point I can't comment much on the frustrations of raising our dd, since everything's worked out well so far (and she may not hit the PG range you're looking for).

Maryann