what do you do for the sensitive (but brutish) gt girl who wont allow you to brush or comb her hair without a HUGE fuss? or, if she refuses to 'allow' barrettes or pony tail holders, same huge fuss, what then? Apparently they are not 'cool'. SHES FOUR!! I don't want to go short, but I don't want her to look like a rat's nest all the time.
Oh, this girl lived at my house too at age 3-4. We did just cut it into a short bob for a while. It made life much, much simpler and it grows back fast. It's almost midway down her back at age 6 now that she wants it combed, braided, and pony tailed. Preferably several times a day, often with a change of clothes.
