Thanks for the book review ColinsMom - looks very interesting and very important for all of us.

If I had a magic wand, I would add chapters to both books that say something like this -

Our goal is to teach children that working hard bring rewards, so, in addition to finding placements where the children have a chance to work hard in order to learn things, it's important to communicate to our children that we believe that working hard brings rewards.

Sound good?
Grinity

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