I do not have advice, but I feel the same. DS is so exhausting; both at home with his constant activity and then again when I read the email from the teacher talking about him challenging and arguing with her about every little thing. I think once he is an adult, these characteristics will be an asset, but as a child they make him a "handful" to use your word. Personally, I was very quiet and obedient as a child and I have grown up to be accepting and conflict-avoiding. This has NOT served me well in many ways...I wish I had the courage to challenge authority like my son does. He is his own person which impresses me, but it is frustrating to deal with the school. I worry about his spirit being crushed, but he has to be polite also....argh!!!! Nan
