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I'd think about what you will be discussing and if you think your dd would do well to hear your concerns. If not, then tell the counselor you won't do that.


I agree with MON. I think it depends on what you want to discuss. I know in the past with my own children, when I have wanted them to see the counsellor, I have had a meeting ahead of time to give the counsellor a heads up about the issue at hand.