Will she still want to go to K if she knows a) that it's not the same as her brother's experience, and b) what she'll have to give up if she goes?

I'm thinking she might not be as fired up about it if she gets the details. Often when I'm facing a decision I don't love, I give my DS/DSs the pros and cons and see what he/they have to say. Sometimes they decide that what they thought they wanted doesn't sound as good once they understand the whole reality of the situation.

Kriston