Part of the draw of this forum is the ability to "VENT". We do it a lot along with commiserating, cheering, back patting and vaious other kinds of support. It really is too soon to know who your little person is going to be, but as a general rule... "Mother knows best".
So welcome aboard. There is a ton of good advice and experience here. If what you suspect about your DD is true, you'll find her between the lines of many other's postings and be able to relate. Use what you find to help keep you sane, cause it can be a wild ride!!
Thanks for the welcome! I've been reading other's posts, as you've mentioned and that's what made me come to terms with the fact that she may be gifted! So many of the stories about early development could have been written by our family! When I'm reading these posts, I feel like I've finally arrived at the right stop on the train :-P....Thanks for listening!