Mam, thanks for the ideas, yes, there is a school for the gifted here, I hadn't thought to ask them. I looked on the mensa website but I don't see any text. Maybe it is my browser...?

I'm interested in having them tested a) so I have a better idea of the big picture and b) because I think that DYS would be useful.

Austin, that is a good idea, there are really places that do it for free?!?!