hellobaby
i started using Transforming the difficult child nurtured heart approach last august and my DD5 has made incredible progress. I really recommend it- our family life is now back to being sane because of that book and video, and all the wisdom within it. Especially that it made me feel like it wasn't all my fault, a huge relief that made me so much more able to deal wiht the day-to-day.
best of luck !!
irene