Hoagies Gifted - one of the best places to read and read, and then read again. I have often gone back to review...
Also google for SENG emotional gifted support resources and such.
DYS also has some resources of course.
In all the resources, take notice of some of the differences for girls vs. boys esp. re: what happens to them when they get older, how they may perceive things, etc.
You're probably gifted also. Look into Adult Giftedness. It may enlighten you about your own life. This seems to happen to many parents.