I've just started to doubt my kids ability or even my competence as a parent when I'm not moving them ahead well before hitting K.
FWIW, my dd whom I mentioned above has been IQ tested twice. Once she was at the 99.9th percentile and once at the 97th which is why I say "gifted to some degree." I don't know if she is MG or HG+ based on her wildly erratic scores on both IQ and achievement tests. She does make me question as well, though, b/c she doesn't clearly present as gifted the way my older dd does even though she looked more gifted as a young person. I'm having to assume that she is still gifted, though.