Aargh! I know where you're coming from, here!
We are so lucky this year that DS7 got an IEP under Special Ed. to go with his GT plan--if it weren't for that, he'd have been suspended a long time ago! He has a lot of anger and frustration issues (and Asperger's) and is frequently in trouble for the way he deals with things. He's getting lots of social skills help and making progress, but it's a slow, uphill climb. A great deal of his frustration comes from how boring a lot of his day is for him.
I hope you can get things worked out for yours!
