Our DS8 doesn't seem to suffer "perfectionism," at least as I understand it. After all, he's quite content turning in mediocre work for class.
But get him to try something new? Nope. No Way. Not unless he knows that he won't have to "try" or "practice." (Or... unless it is a new on-line game. But that's a whole different topic.)
We also notice a difference when the suggestion/opportunity comes from his teacher. We've cautioned the teacher, however, against making something optional, or DS will almost always opt out. If we suggest something that even remotely resembles learning or character building, the feet dig in and that's that.
I'm quite interested to read what others have to say. Maybe some helpful suggestions will come along.
