How much does perfectionism play into a child saying that something is "too hard," and has a difficult time trying new things? Is it a fear of failure? Plain fear? My DS seems to be very good at everything he will try; but it is like pulling teeth to get him to do so. Any comments/suggestions in helping get him(/us) through this. We are extremely supportive of him; but we canot understand his mentality. Books for me to read are always good as well. Thanks.

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Mom to DS6