Thanks Cricket that helps.
I guess the more I look at my other two children they are more late bloomers as well. My older son's achievement is also much higher than his FSIQ and it just really jumped this year in a FT GT 3rd grade.
dd5 is severely asynchronous and her emotional/social skills are very very low. She's in therapy for mood deregulation right now. She even got a stomach just from completely the Beery VMI with the psych. So the pieces are starting to fall together for me I suppose.
I guess I just hope that the GT program will accept her without a 120 FSIQ as long as achievement is ahead. I really don't care about the IQ number as long as she is in the appropriate programming at school. She will start K as an almost 6 yr old because of her bday. So that plus her less than accommodating personality has me ready for a rough year (I hope I'm surprised.)