Besides the emphasis that neither Davidson's in general, nor the FC in particular have a magic wand and can make it all better, there are a couple of things that are worth mentioning.

One thing that stuck with me from our first FC phone call was to ask Dd specific questions that can give a lot of information. For instance, ask her what she would change from her school day if she could change only one thing.

Also, the more concrete ideas you have, and the better grasp you have of what they can and cannot offer (see posts above), then the more productive that first phone call will be.