I have one more thought I've been hesitant to say. DH brother (around 55 now)was excellerated 1 yr in grammar school. They didn't know what to do with him sometimes so he helped the janitor.

DH's brother is now one of the top appliance salesman in his store. (This sounds a bit boring to me but maybe less stessful than corporate jobs) He also did realestate for a while. He was a college graduate. He has a nice home and life. I would consider him to be successful but...One time his Mom said to me she was disappointed he didn't do more. Another time he said, He seems to take the easy way. These points have stuck with me as I relate them to my son but I'm not exactly sure how to make a point with these. I think it could of been better and more satisfying.

Last edited by onthegomom; 01/08/10 03:59 PM.