The cost is cheaper at the small private school. Montessori is costing us an arm and leg. Neither is inexpensive, but we'd definitely save money with the smaller school.
I agree that the private school sounds ideal. It just feels right when he is there, and he loves it. Of course, he's always having fun taking theater, science, and art! What's not to love? It would be a bit different when he has to do all of his subjects there. The older kids treat him like he's just a normal part of the group. They think he's cute because he talks like a little adult, but they don't treat him like he's a little kid. He loves that. But, yes, I do worry that he doesn't have more kids his own age there. If they are able to start the elementary class for next year, he'll have more kids his age, so that "problem" will be solved.
Jamie, that's interesting to hear that your Montessori school isn't a great fit. It sure seems like it would be perfect, doesn't it? I am so worried that this is going to turn out to be another bad fit. I realize you just don't know until you try, but ds has had such a bad school experience so far that I'd hate for him to be even more discouraged.
Kriston, I do worry about the class/school size. If they aren't able to start up the elementary class, who will he become friends with? I know he considers the older students his friends, but who will he play with outside of school? Ds is convinced that the 10th grade boy he looks up to will want to come over and play Wii at our house! He's a great kid, but I'm sure he has friends his own age (not 6) LOL It's just so different from my school experience. Not that it was a bed of roses for me academically, but I treasured those friendships I made back then. I probably worry too much. I just want whats best for him.
Again, it's good to have options. I am going to try to ride this out as long as possible before making a final decision. I think if I'm on the fence when the time comes, I'm going with the small private school. If ds falls in love with Montessori and thrives over the next couple of months, I think that will answer my question as well. It's always good to hear other opinions. Thanks a bunch for your input!
