A lot of DDs friends seem to be quite advanced, so the parents seem not be get jealous about other kids abilities. For example DDs good friend (2.5) talks very well and I always enjoy having conversations with her, I love to brag her mom about her cute, smart and wonderful the little girl. She does the same thing to me
It is nice not to have to compete, we all know how special our kids are.
We have some problems DHs sisters. Their kids are older than DD it is obvious she is more advanced at 2 than any of her cousins. MIL wanted to buy DD this kids computer his 4 year old cousin enjoys. It teaches letters and numbers. I know it would be just another unused toy in our house as DD does not like toy computers and she knows everything that toy teaches. I guess it is positive MIL thinks DD would enjoy same things than her 2 year older cousin.
