Originally Posted by Isa
The teacher says that she looks happy and well adapted and does not seem to find any problem. Only that she does not like to work alone, so 'please I should get her used to play a little on her own at home'.

I heard plenty of that kind of comment! Ugh! Could someone explain how one is supposed to do that? I though leaving him 'alone' at daycare 25 hours a week from 7 weeks of age is plenty of 'alone' time.

I also always heard:
You son is immature. We have "4 or 10" children in this room, and I'm supposed to divide my time equally amoung each child, but your son doesn't let me do this. What's wrong with him?

I had no idea that the teacher was the only person in the room he could have a reasonable conversation with! Or it could have been that he did read the teacher traing books, and that if he had, he wouldn't have agreed. In retrospect, I certianly would have suggested he be placed with older kids to see if that did help. Now we will never know.

((shrug))
Grinity


Coaching available, at SchoolSuccessSolutions.com