I'm trying to understand this? Can most children this age learn these things via tools like the leapfrog videas, toys, etc.? How do you know?
At least I do not know but I have come to the conclusion that no one can give me the answer. I'm sure you can comfortably say that he is very advanced to his age:)
I also have to agree with Grinity and ask why does it matter to you? Could you try to be happy with the mother and share her excitement about the little boys development? It drives me nuts that we can not share DD's achievements with SIL&BIL as they seem to be afraid if she wold be more advanced than their boys (the boys are really smart kids so they have no reason to be jealous). It should not be away from their kids giftedness if DD is advanced. You can see I really can not stand comparing kids, we should enjoy all of them equally regardless of they abilities.
