I'm sorry that you felt attacked. I've felt like I've had to defend my parenting the whole 5 years that my DS has been alive smile I've been accused of pushing (because how else could he know what he does) as I'm sure a lot of parents here have been. This just strikes a nerve with me smile

If the child really is gifted that will come out at some point. The guy that tested my son said that they are reluctant to test kids under 5 because of just what you've said. Parents think their child is gifted because they know this or that when it's only because they've been exposed to it.

Again sorry!