Hi! Can someone recommend a few good books on helping children cope with emotional issues and not to take things too personally?

We are hoping to help our DD5 learn some life skills that will last. Examples of situations including: when she raises her hand in class, but the teacher calls someone else; when there is a change in plan; feeling the need to do whatever (even though DD was not enjoying the activity) friends do in order to be part of the group, etc.

She generally does not throw a tantrum, but she does tear-up and her feeling are hurt. We try to reassure her that it is okay when these situations happen. The teacher still loves you.... It is okay to be different and do things you enjoy instead...., etc.

Thanks!