Thank you so much for your input on this....it's exactly what we needed. We have been expending a lot of time worrying about this and I needed outside perspective from parents who have been in the trenches so to speak. I have to admit that when we started discussing the school options with the Dr., I started to cry because of how he made it sound.

We are willing to do the work wherever he goes to school to make sure he gets what he needs. To Kriston's point, our DS does fit in well in every way except academically so maybe our school choices are broader than the Dr. made them sound.

I really do appreciate your feedback.