It sounds like you are doing some good things to challenging her. Just keep doing what you can without too much pressure on either one of you. Kids pick up on their parents feelings and stresses so try to relax and enjoy this time with her. Even if everything is not perfect or just what she needs she can be ok. Learning about gifted has really scared me sometimes too. Hang in there. Your understanding and support goes along way. Keep listening to her. Hugs.