renie1 - I would definitely contact the teacher or librarian about the books. DS was bringing home "easy" books as well. He still is, but they are at least up a few levels than where they were. At least they have more than 2 words on a page now.

As for the other, just keep a tab on things like this for the moment. Sometimes, because we are overaware of the things that go on our with our DC compared to the other kids in class, we often get more frustrated and see things that really weren't meant to be taken as such (i.e., maybe your DD didn't volunteer to take the work home til last? last name comes first or last?, etc). But if it continues to happen, then definitely mention it. Kids don't normally like to be last - they feel left out, so hopefully it was not the intention this time!