I have to say my husband wants a good educations for his children but doesn't totally get our picture.

I have a DS9 who is borderline DYS and hoping to get in. I question whether my DD6 is being challenged in school. It seems like everyone wants kids to have a big problem like disrupting the class before they consider it a problem. I have been obsessed with learning all I can but it's a challenge understanding it all and retaining the information. My DH doesn't really get why I'm spending so much time reading and researching. I feel like it's a race against the clock for me.

I just needed to vent. I wondering if anyone can relate or offer any suggestions.