I think we all have doubts at some point. For me, the time for doubting whether she is gifted has passed, but I still have doubts as to whether she is HG+ or MG.

I also think Ruf's book is a good way of getting out of gifted denial. Once I looked through her examples of her level 4 kids and compared them to DD (DD seemed more advanced, for the most part), it became very clear that DD couldn't be _not_ gifted.