Hi acs,

You do not sound pitiful at all. You're just being real. I've found it very therapuedic to be real here, in a supportive environment.
It sure is a dissapointment to get the "thin letter"-hee hee.
Your DS is really special and unique, same with my girls.
I had pinned my hopes on getting a little help, cause we all know these kids can wear you down.
When I got the letter, I let out a deep breath and cursed under my breath. "Well that one didn't work out". Realistically, though, with our without Davidson help I will continue to advocate at school, wear myself down trying to locate mentors and peers and do basically whatever I need to provide my girls with the things they need. We can all do that. And when we get worn down, we can come hear and "chat" with those who truly do get it.
We need true peers to connect with, same as our kids.

Peace,
Incog