Thank you all for your wise advice.
ACS, I hear you and agree with you. I know who my DD is whether or not she is accepted into the program....thank you for your kind and understanding words.
Of course I hope we can have some help through Davidson, regardless, My DH and I are committed to making sure both daughters receive the care and attention they need to grow up into the amazing adults we know they can be.
And have a lot of fun along the way.

Thanks all!
Incog