Some great comments guys - thanks a bunch...I just thought that article just really shed some light on my concerns....I decided to write an email to the advocate last night sharing the 2 links and then giving her some real details about why I think the way I do and I will see how she responds.....if she still pursues that avenue I think we may need to say thank you and move on. There are no other advocate choices in our area so I would go at it alone....but I would rather do that then purposely make up something I know in my heart isn't true just to play the system.

Thanks guys for always giving me support!!