Thanks master of none...I think the hardest part is that DS6 is the sunshine of my life and I want SOOOO badly to take his frustration, anger....away from him and I try really hard not only to model but sit and talk about how everyone makes mistakes and it is okay. I am really laid back and have never, ever pushed him into anything...if he has shown an interest in something or asked about something, his father and I will bend over backwards to do what we can to allow him to explore what he is interested in further dan we have always allowed him to move at whatever pace, concerning whatever skill he sets. I just wish that i could help him understand more.