Wow- thanks for sharing your stories! It helps to know that others have made it through the toddler phase with a very active child. And that your children are doing well!
I've learned to accept/embrace my son's activity level, spirited nature, and giftedness. There are days when I feel so worn out, and I look at other kids that sit so nice and quietly with awe. Nick is very bright, and happy, but oh, so persistent!

kcab- I am seeing glimpses of the invincible kid tendency already- DS2 went down the slide at the park this winter, face first right into the snow- he was 17 mos at the time, and doggedly got right back up and hollered at the slide and said, "AGAIN, Mama!" Bleeding lip and all.
He has taken to directing the MDs when we go in for a visit. This past time he asked them to use their "otoscope, check ears!". He just doesn't act like a toddler, more like a little man- very social and already seems to prefer older kids/adults.

Debbie V- I will keep that in mind with teachers- I'm already thinking about what we'll need to do for his schooling- I'm hoping the principal will be open to helping find the right teacher with the skills to work with a very active gifted boy. He is directable most times and does best if he has a "job" to do.

I'm watching his imaginative play blossom, but he's an extravert and definitely prefers me/someone to play with him. Not really one of the kids that does a lot of independent play and I'm beat!

Thanks for listening, and I'd welcome any other stories as well!