No opinions, just thoughts. I am somewhat "tone deaf" - it's very difficult for me to match pitch - it seems that what I think I'm singing and what I actually sound like are two different things (I hate being recorded - freaks me out to hear how I really sound LOL). Sometimes I can do it if I try very hard but that requires tons of concentration and I'm sure I still can't get it right. Anyway, I'm not dyslexic. But I am a VSL.

I'd suggest an instrument perhaps? My very, very VSL ds, who also seems to have auditory issues, likes piano, and both his teacher and his music teacher at school have suggested that he's good with rhythm. And he's always quick to tell me when a piano key doesn't sound right, so maybe the sound coming outside the body sounds different from sound made within the body? I don't know...