OK too funny and I will answer the question but also tie something else in that I heard on tv while I was pregnant.

I definitely was not on birth control and we had major problems and were told that the chance of us getting pregnant was minimal. DD was our miracle baby.

Now for what I heard on one of the morning shows. They were going through a lot of true/false statements such as children from single parent homes are more likely to fail in school.... false, etc. Children born to a mother 35 + in age are more likely to be intelligent ... true. They don't know why it is true. It might be the older eggs are the best eggs or mothers 35+ tend to wait to have children after starting a career and usually have some form of college. I think it is the 2nd option ... but anyway ... I laughed and told my DH about the true/false game and get ready we are going to have an intelligent child since I would have just turned 36 when we had our DD. Little did I know just how intelligent she would be.