Hi Benny,
Welcome! My son was a week late, so I don't know much about preemie-hood, but it seems to me that '2e' could easily refer to that type of struggle. If you haven't seen the book 'Uniquely Gifted' you might enjoy it. It is sort of the bible of '2e' and although I don't remember anything about 2e in it, it has a very wide variety of experiences.

So VLBW is 'very low birth weight?'

Love and More Love,
Grinity

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