When I posted about our bus-bully problem (which has completely faded, btw: the same kids are still on the bus but they ignore us now) someone recommended the book Bullies are a Pain in the Brain, which I bought and which seems good (although I didn't use it with DS, in the end, since the problem was almost gone by the time the book arrived). Good luck.

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