Thanks for the welcome!
He is not in any gifted programs because we homeschool, but even if we didn't, there are no gifted programs in our local public school and no magnet schools in our state. We do have a few private schools (I think 2) in our area-maybe they have gifted programs-I don't know. We have always homeschooled and yes, he is happy and doing well.

I am sooo not gifted-maybe that is why I don't see it in my son that much. My husband is very, very smart/gifted which must be where our son gets it. He is going to have to take over teaching math very soon as my son is wayyyy better than I am in math!!