Yes, Belle, I find this whole topic illuminating re: schooling. It's scary, really. I don't want my DD to tread water whilst others catch up. No way. I think that's what I had to do, way back when.

BTW, only two books were banned from me growing up: Flowers in the Attic and Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret. Of course I learned about the juicy stuff from my friends, but I still have not read them. I kind of wanted a copy of Are You There for my 40th birthday lol