I don't think I'm in denial. (But maybe I'm in denial about my denial smile ) Going over the list on this link:

http://www.educationaloptions.com/resources/resources_levels_giftedness.php

I went through for level 3,4 and 5 marked how many were yes, no or unknown (I admit, for some of these things, it never occurred to me to keep track). Here's what I came up with:

Level 3: Y-20, N-7, U-4
Level 4: Y-16, N-8, U-2
Level 5: Y-5, N-23, U-2

So that's why I say she's level 3, maybe 4. I guess a lot of it would depend on how many you think a child needs to have to be classified for a particular level.