I have an eleven year old daughter in sixth grade. Some of it is the problem with socialization and some of it is the age.
If it is any consolation, I teach this age and even the average students act very strangely at this age. They are in a social stress test of sorts. My daughter is just completely confused about other students' behavior most of the time, while exhibiting some strange behavior of her own as well.
You are very fortunate to have the magnet school. We just left a city where my daughter was to attend one. The racist issue does need to be cleared up. Even though there are these issues, he is most likely in the right place for middle school. They offer classes that nobody else gets to take - ever.
I hope this issue is resolved. Middle school is tough for everyone, but especially for gifties.
