Have you talked to DS about advancing to 2nd? If he wants to do it, he will be much more inclined to adapt. The school can also make concessions. My DS6 is in a 3rd grade language arts class. He isn't able to write at the speed of 3rd graders. He is allowed to do his essay work on a keyboard. When the computer isn't available, his essay assignment is sent home for him to do as homework.
I agree with Inky that he will adapt if it's where he wants to be.
Shari
Mom to DS 10, DS 11, DS 13
Ability doesn't make us, Choices do!
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