Sounds a lot like my DS6, he is not emotionally mature at all!!
Meanwhile he is 4 grades ahead.
I spoke to someone in charge of homeschooling in NYC.
They said to me, if he is enrolled in school there will be services available for him, school phychologist who can test him and other services etc. If I homeschool I am on my own.
And homeschooling 1/2 a day is not allowed.
So he kinda turned me off to it.
Also, if we homeschool how will that education be perceived later on when they apply for middle school HS etc.