I feel the same frustration and exhaustion for my 6-year-old's situation. We talked in another thread about the feeling of grief that we carry. Like we're grieving for the schools that never came. It's so wearing to depend on an institution only to have it let your child down so completely.
I'm sorry.
The forum seems quiet this morning, but please do check back. There are lots of people here who know and have been through lots more than I know and have been through. I'm sure you'll get more good help. And probably lots of commiseration!
K-