"Yes he has, I can tell." Her husband sarcastically told me, "Everyone's kid is smart...everyone's kid is good looking, aren't they?"
This is certainly one way to find out who your friends are!
I like Dr. Sylvia Rimm's comment in a presentation, you hold a Ph.D. in your child. No one, no professional, no school adminstrator knows your child the way you do. We all, ok maybe mostly me, like to hide our heads in the sand. But stand tall momma, you know in your heart what is going on - don't let them smell fear :-)