I hear all of you. We just avoid the conversations. Learned the hard way. It never ends well - even with parents of other GT kids it isn't always "safe". Tiny answers low on detail and then just start answering questions with questions about general things like books, characters, how boy and girls, brothers and sisters are different - anything to change the direction. Like that Time Mag cover story from Aug of 07... you know if your kid practices basketball everyday they won't be Michael Jordan but we think we are all equal stepping up for education. Doesn't mean any of these gt kids will "turn out better" or have a "better" or "richer" or more fullfilling life... but even hinting at such differences could get you blacklisted in the hen/mommy crowd (uh is that really a bad thing though ;-).
