Let me add, I think finding a pre-school that is play based and focuses on social, school, and leadership skills is perfectly ok for these kids. It is unlikely to find a program that will teach at their actual level - so enrich at home - and avoid a program that tries "teaching" unless it is really at level. I'd rather my child learn social skills and little leassons about life, people, nature... then looking a a wall of colors or alphabet letters and being bored silly. But that is just our experience and based on the options available/affordable to us.
